Unplugged

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Starting at midnight plus one minute on Tuesday, June 30th, I will be unplugged for two weeks. Totally with out electronic communication means. It is a chance for me to refocus, reconnect and reallocate my mental resources on the things that really matter: my wife, my daughter and myself.

Here is the deal: I am not going to look at any email that I get in the two weeks I am away. Most of the items I get are robotic in nature (NYTimes daily email update, etc). I will take a moment to ask anyone who wants to email me to hold off until July 15. If you can’t, I’ll send you a reminder on when I am ready to start receiving email when I get back.

I would love to put a similar reminder on my work email, but the culture of work does not really allow for that. I know that there will be lots of automated email which will be easy to wipe out. It is all of the other messages. If you work with me and you are reading this… send the emails on July 15, sounds good?

And listen, don’t call. When I said I am shedding my electronic leashes, that means my phones too. You’ll just fill up my voicemail and I’ll be deleting all of those messages as soon as I get back, I don’t like voicemail, fyi.

Cool.

I know you want to know about the travel, the photos, the blogging. All of that will come once I get back, so calm down, take a breather. It will all come, but not in real time.

Sharpening the saw

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If you are a regular reader, you may notice some changes to the site. The reasons are varied, but if you have commented recently, don’t think that your comment is the reason why I have made these changes.

I have been working to sharpen the saw, in both my personal and professional life. I have found myself overwhelmed by the amount of work my job and my lovely daughter have created. Some of that overwhelmed sense is good, some of it not so good. Right now my inputs are far exceeding my ability to output effectively. My task list at work keeps growing and I’m not okay with just letting it go. Not that I’m OCD or anything, but admitting defeat and letting projects linger in a state of semi finish just doesn’t fly for me.

I know I recently added the Skribit widget to my site and you’ll notice it is gone. I will admit, I’m a “joiner.” When I find something interesting, i’ll join the site, sign up for the beta and put it somewhere. That stops today. No more sign ups for betas, no more widgets or gadgets or duct-tape add-ons. I can’t rely on betas and I’m not willing to fill out crash reports anymore. As for the widgets, how may pieces of flair does my blog need, after all I am not blogging at the T.G.I.Friday’s.

What about the comments? While I have very much enjoyed everyone who has commented on my blog, I feel like I am not adequately corresponding with those to take the time to write a note back to me and for that I am sorry. I have also read John Gruber’s thoughts on comments on his own blog (as transcribed by Shawn Blanc):

I wanted to write a site for someone it’s meant for. That reader I write for is a second version of me. I’m writing for him. He’s interested in the exact same things I’m interested in; he reads the exact same websites I read. I want him to like this website so much that he reads it from the top to the bottom, and he reads everything. Every single word. The copyright statement, what software I use, he’s read it all.

If I turn comments on, that goes away. It’s not that I don’t like sites with comments on, but when you read a site with comments it automatically puts you, the reader, in a defensive mode where you’re saying, “what’s good in this comment thread? What can I skim?”

It’s totally egotistical. I want Daring Fireball to be a site that you can’t skim if you’re in the target audience for it. You say, “Oh, a new article from John. I need to read it,” and your deadlines go whizzing by because you have to read what I wrote.

If I turn comments on I feel like it’s two different directions. You get to the end of my article and you’re like, “let’s see if there’s anything interesting. Let’s see if there’s any names I know.” That’s really it. Sometimes a design decision is what you don’t put in, as opposed to what you put in.

Erin McKean, a lexicographer, said in her August 2007 TED talk “…And when parts of your job are not easy or fun, you look for an excuse to not do them…” and that’s pretty accurate stuff.1

The work of this blog has not been fun for a while, I’m going to try and change that. Sorry that I’m not going to be commenting on your comments any more, but I have not really enjoyed my blog, my twitter, my facebook, or really thing I’ve been “doing” online.

When I started to write about my “inner hippie” I realized that blogging could be fun, with a little more time spent editing and a little less churning out crap like the iPhone app reviews. That is not my schtick, I’ll leave that to the professionals.

What I will do is start to write the best blog that I can. This means that I am going to write about what I want to. Clay Shirky, in a talk at Web 2.0 explained that gin was how people coped with Industrial Revolution, and the television is our current pacifier. I don’t know if it is because we have just turned off cable2or if the work load and the lack of sleep are starting to catch up with me, but I think that been using the Internet as my whipping horse or pacifier, but I have realized that I can get a lot more return if I have a sharper focus. Blogs I had started, like my failed project, the Simplicity Habit, or the social networks I’m currently a part of are going to either be boxed3 or fall off my radar completely. So long Friendfeed, I hardly knew you. I am now focusing on getting rid of the noise in my life, to be frank, there is far to much.

If you want to converse with me about something on my blog, send me an email via the contact page, or directly if you know it. That is the replacement for comments. Not as personal as you and me sitting down at a bar and talking the night away over some brews and peanuts, but it will have to do until I can arrange for you and I to get to the nearest bar. This the changed blog.

There is probably going to be more stuff about my daughter and the amazing things she doing. I might throw some politics in here and there are also going to be more posts about me getting real with my time, attention and work. These things are going to be written more as letters to myself. If you find them interesting, great! Glad to have you as a reader! If you’re bored, I’m sorry. The internet is full of cool and far more interesting and eloquent stuff than is being produced here. If you want to troll, might I recommend Digg, you’ll find a lot of company there.

Consider this my third album, after a brilliant freshman release and the usual sophomore slum, I’m back. No experimental album shit, just me.

Notes

  1. ↑1 The rest of her talk is great, watch it.
  2. ↑2 Thus my liberation from the mass opiate.
  3. ↑3 Frakking Battlestar Galactica reference intentional

I want your suggestions!

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I want you to tell me what I should write about. I have added a Skribit widget in the left hand sidebar, which lets you suggest and vote for blog post topics. I am also adding it to the Feedburner flare at the bottom of each post if you are subscribed by RSS.

Please let me know what you want me to write about!

New project weirdness

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After finally solving the blog weirdness, i have found more weirdness in a new project I’m pursuing. A former colleague and friend and I are creating a podcast, very GTD and 43folders-esque, but PodPress, the major podcast plugin for Wordpress, is causing some serious performance issues. Something about the podpress.js file hangs up around 9.9 KB. So now I’m looking for other options. Ugh!

Blog weirdness

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i have been having some issues with the blog theme (the lipstick on this pig) has been reverting to the default. I think the weirdness has to do with a plugin but I can’t figure it out, so I renamed the theme that I like to default. That should solve the issue, please let me know if it doesn’t.

Running from the brink

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Yesterday, I nearly lost the past 3 years of blog posts. I guess uninstalling a plug-in FUBAR’d1 the whole deal. I managed to dump the contents of the MySQL database, but trick was getting it back in a new / fresh install. I learned a lot about pushing database files around, which will only lend to my current job.

Be warned: due to the reinstallation, some of the images and files that were linked to are going to be broken. Send me an email or leave a comment if it is something you need, or want.

On another note, today I ran 10 miles. That is the longest I have ever run in one sitting. After today’s run, I have completed 26.5 miles this week. To add to the physical discomfort, I hit the gym on Tuesday and Thursday, which is now the plan. Now I just have to figure out how to decrease the time it took from the span of a week to just around 4 hours.

Notes

  1. ↑1 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/FUBAR – Adult language… you have been warned.

Weight Watchers Tracker

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A passer-by (hopefully a new reader), inquired about a post I made back in March of 2007. I had mentioned creating a Weight Watchers point tracker based on a PocketMod booklet, but I failed to post a link to it.

After getting Keith’s email, I had a panic. Where did I have that file? After searching all of my email history, and my hard drive, I finally found it on a backup DVD. Whew!

Keith, here you go. Let me know how it works for you.

Update:Kevin didn’t write, Keith did.

Update II: After a near blog disaster, I am reposting the Weight Watchers Tracker for Kirsten

Mind the dust

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Normally, a post like this would start off with an excuse and a promise to recommit to posting everyday. This post will not be like that.

I have been writing a whole lot more about the baby (baby.b3noit.com) and spending time with my parents over Christmas.

Starting tomorrow, I am reengaging my marathon training plan (MTP) and with the help of Esther’s Christmas present (a Garmin Forerunner 301). I am working on a way to share the data gathered by the GPS with this blog. So far www.discovermachine.com is how I am going to proceed, but there is some oddity with uploads.

I guess along with the running, I am going to start a resolution, to write and read more regularly. Write more on the blog, read more dead tree books. We shall see how successful I am with that.

New line of work

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I have had my blog off the grid for a while, mainly due to a lack of time to make the final changes to the theme/layout/plugins, etc. Now that I have finally forced myself to stay up past the 10 o’clock hour and work on it, I am ready for an exuberant relaunch.

I’ve been in my new job at CNU for about a month, things are going great! I am finding the systems analyst thing to be to my liking. I am solving problems, working logically through roadblocks, exactly what I want to do. In reality I’m pulling a project management role, which is definitely the direction that I want to take my career.

My mother-in-law says that things come in three’s. With the new blog and the new job, I have some major news. Esther and I are expecting. We have a baby on the way and unlike some bloggers, who are slowing down or going on hiatus, I hope to blog the entire thing. Photos, video, that may be above and beyond, although pretty when it does get posted. Read More »